I am sitting here in our humble little home, on top of a hill watching the wind blow leaves threw the air furiously. There is a damp coldness in the air, but if one were to stumble upon our humble little abode, they would see warm inviting smoke coming from our chimney. Inside they would fine a quaint but simple home, with the scent of sandalwood in the air from the flickering candles burning. Our cats curled up in their bed by the wood stove sound asleep. What we have isn't much in the eyes of many, but to us it is "Home Sweet Home".
It takes me back to the small town of Speculator NY, where I grew up. This time of year, we would be getting so excited about Halloween coming up. My mother and father worked very hard to give us what they could, but we never had store bought costumes. My mother would take the time and do her very best to make what ever costume we wanted. We did the ever loving hobo, the clown, and one year I will never forget was when I was a box of popcorn. My brother and sister thought they were to old at the time to dress up, to them it was childish. For me, I was still a child and this year I would be going to the school for the Halloween costume contest! I could not wait. My mother went to our local grocery store and asked for a box. she search until she found one that would sit just right on my shoulders. She then covered it with red and white crape paper and hand cut letters out that spelled out "buttered popcorn". Those were glued to the front and back of the box, For the top, my father spread glue all around the top and the hole that was cut for my head to go through. My mother popped popcorn and poured it over the glue. When dried, it looked just like a real box of popcorn. We all piled into the car, yes, my parents made my brother and sister go to watch. My Grandma Orr came up from Wells to watch as well. I proudly marched around in the circle to show off my costume to the judges. When we were done, the winners were announced. When the "Most Original" winner was announced, my name was called out. This is the very first thing I can ever remember winning, so it is a special memory for me. Oh, there were the kids that had the beautiful store bought princess costumes and the fairy's all sparkling, but it was the originality and hard work of my parents that won for me that day. I was so proud, and to this day, when I think of it, I tear up thinking about how much our parents have always loved us and done their best to make us happy. Especially my mother, you see she was born on Halloween, so she gave up many birthday celebrations so that we could have a happy Halloween. Thank you Mom, that is why we try to make her birthday special every year now, to give back just a little of the love she gave to us.
My parents also grew up in Speculator and Wells NY, so there were many family members living very close. I had a ton of cousins that I went to school with and played with. They were always very special to me, and to this day they mean the word to me. They are the true sense of the word "Family". When one of us is hurting, we all hurt. That is how close we are. Getting back to when we were young, I remember on more than one occasion, my mother and Aunt Mary driving us all around to houses to go trick or treating. It was not only cold, but a few years we also had snow on the ground already!! There were always our favorite houses to go to. One house gave out peanut butter cups.... then there was the one that gave out coins!! Back then, a lot of people made home made goodies, which we all loved. You didn't have to worry about needles or razor blades being in these delectable treats. We would get candied apples and chocolate chip cookies, but my all time personal favorite would be the fabulous rice krispie treats made by a lady down the street. I remember her name was Helen, and she was the sweetest lady. She always made these treats with chocolate on top.... YUM..... I can still remember how wonderful they were.
Now that I am growing older, I seem to be looking out the window, watching the seasons change, Thinking back to the fun times of being a child. I wish the children today could know of these wonderful times. We were not rich with money, but we were so rich with love and family. I wish I could turn back the hands of time just long enough to go back and thank the older people in our small town, that made these memories so special for me. It is these memories and feeling of being so loved that has made me the person I am today. I still am not rich with money. My husband and I live a very humble simple life. What we do have is a home that is warm and cozy, not fancy but there is love and warmth and the love of the Lord. Does anyone really need much more than that??
Thank you for taking the time to read about my trip down memory lane. May God Bless you and may you look back and think of wonderful times spent with family and friends that you considered family when you were young, bringing some of those feelings into our life today.